Popular dating apps include Match, Zoosk, eHarmony, and OKCupid. If you’re just looking for friends, you can make an account on Meetup. com.
Having a good profile will entice girls to message you.
Find common interests by looking at their photos and reading their profile. If they have a photo from the Natural History Museum, you could say something like, “Hey, I’m Joe. I love the Natural History Museum too. When did you go there?” You can also say something as simple as “Hey I’m Erin, what’s up?”
Good conversation topics include music, movies, celebrity gossip, a book you’ve recently read, or other things that you have in common. If you feel like the text conversation is stalling, ask a question like, “So I just saw the movie Tusk, and it blew my mind. Not in a good way. You into horror movies?” If you have the feeling that the girl’s profile and photos are too good to be true, or if something else about her seems to be wrong, trust your gut and look for other girls instead.
You can say something like, “Hey, I think you’re really chill. Do you want to meet up in person?”
You can ask your friends to introduce you to their friends before the social gathering if you’re nervous.
Say something like, “Jeez, this homework is the most intense stuff ever. Are you getting it?”
Talk about work by saying something like, “Seriously? Three double shifts this week! Don’t you wish that the scheduling was a little more organized?” Ask her to hang out by saying something like, “Yo, I think you’re really chill. Would you want to hang outside of work sometime?” Or you could get more specific and say something like, “What are you doing this Friday? Want to go to happy hour with me?”
You can say something like, “The second book in that series is one of my favorites. Are you a fan of Bukowski?”
If you want to talk to the girl, make sure you go to a bar or club that isn’t too loud. You can say something like, “Hey I saw you on the other side of the bar. My name’s Gerald, what’s your name?” Or you could say “Your sneakers are really cool, are they the new Air Max Goraths? I was thinking about getting a pair of them myself. "
Girls who aren’t with anyone or look bored may be more willing to talk to you.
If she turns towards you, smiles, and talks, you’ll know that the introduction is welcome.
You can say something like, “Hey, so I’m about to get out of here but I really liked talking to you. Think I could get your number so we could chill in the future?” Or you can say something like, “It was really good meeting you tonight. Let’s exchange numbers so that we can hang out soon. "
You need to act confident, and that means that you need to feel confident. If you find that you are not confident enough around girls, practice. Try to get into a habit of getting small conversations with random people. Once you get comfortable talking to strangers, the act of talking to girls will slowly start to feel natural.
